When Vietnamese parents say "my child is 4-years-old" they are using the Lunar calendar, where they begin counting on the date of conception (i.e., 9 months before the child is born).
When Vietnamese parents say "my child is 39-months-old" they are using the Western calendar, where they begin counting on the date of birth.
Therefore:
- 39-months-old = 4-years-old in Vietnam
- 48-months-old = 4-years-old in Australia